Some people always have someone new right after a breakup, while others rarely start a relationship and take each one seriously.
People who take relationships seriously either haven’t had many or are waiting for the right person. They may have remained single for a long time.
Those who can stay single for a long time are usually reliable. Finding a partner like this often provides security.
Long-Term Singles Aren’t Casual
People who have been single for a long time aren’t disinterested in love; they’re just selective.
They’d rather be alone than have a casual relationship without responsibility and a future. They only get close if they truly love someone.
They’re either all-in or not interested at all.
Resisting Temptation, Remaining Loyal
Someone who stays single for a year, two, three, or even longer, and doesn’t entertain any relationships, is certainly capable of resisting loneliness and resisting all temptations.
They have good character and strong self-control.
Someone with proven character will treat you well and be loyal. They won’t betray you.
It’s not just because they’re responsible to you; it’s also because they’re very dependable and take relationships seriously.
Choose Long-Term Singles
Before getting married, they restrain themselves and don’t throw around the word “love.” After marriage, they won’t be unfaithful. They’ll understand the importance of nurturing the marriage.
As for those who have had numerous relationships and quickly move on after a breakup, you should be cautious. They may seem to understand you well, but they also tend to be fickle.
Whether in love or marriage, it’s best to entrust yourself to someone who isn’t casual.
If you’ve been single for a long time, it’s worth reflecting on why. If there are areas for improvement, work on them.