They say women love bad men.
When it comes to lustful behavior, people often think of men since men are known to think with their lower body. Women, on the other hand, are usually associated with modesty and gracefulness.
So why do they say that lustful men often understand women better in real life? The answer is simple.
In the early stages of a relationship, women tend to be reserved. However, when they truly love someone, they are actually quite open. As the saying goes, “You know my sinister intentions, I understand your pretense.”
Women are initially reserved when starting a relationship, but as time goes on, some women appreciate a man’s bad side.
Mike, a friend of mine, is seen as a love expert and a ladies’ man among our friends. Many people often seek his advice on love matters.
He feels conflicted about this perception because he believes his outer image doesn’t match his true self inside.
While everyone sees him as a playboy, he considers himself a good man.
He believes that the key to capturing someone’s heart in a relationship is understanding a woman’s thoughts. He has many female “good friends” and is a confidant for many women.
In his interactions with women, he has his own unique secrets.
Lustful men understand women’s vulnerabilities better
A woman’s strong affection for a man usually stems from the love shown in the details.
Women are sensitive and value a man’s care in the details.
When a woman is sick, making her ginger soup is much more meaningful than telling her to drink more hot water.
When a woman is feeling down, constant companionship is better than mere consolation.
Actions speak louder than words. Sweet talk may initially please a woman, but over time, she will see through the deception.
Therefore, men who treat others sincerely, actively care for them in their vulnerable moments, truly understand a woman’s heart.
Hugo once said, “There are many lovely women, but no perfect ones.”
Women are delicate, and a hug or a simple greeting can move them deeply.
Women need comfort and care. When a man understands her vulnerabilities and protects her, he becomes more trustworthy in her eyes.
When a man can see through a woman’s facade of strength and protect her fragility, he gains a reliable position in her heart.
Lustful men understand women’s game of cat and mouse
Balzac once said, “A woman is like a harp; it takes an artist to understand the secrets of the beautiful melodies it reveals.”
Men and women express love differently. Women are subtle, while men are more direct. Sometimes when a woman likes someone, she won’t express it directly. In such cases, she will be more indirect, unlike men who may give up if they don’t see clear signs of interest.
However, men who understand women will grasp these subtle hints.
When faced with a woman’s requests and invitations, they will accept graciously and openly.
Through these interactions, their relationship grows stronger.
Only when a woman depends on and trusts you can you pursue her more effectively, which is a tactic in love.
It’s said that women like men with strategies in love. Sometimes, men need to learn some strategies to better understand women.
Women are subtle, so they won’t be too direct in love. But if she hints at you intentionally or unintentionally, you should seize the opportunity and make her like you.
The fundamental reason why some men fail in pursuing women is that they don’t understand women enough.
Men who give up when faced with challenges in love will never find the happiness they seek.
If you like someone, boldly pursue them. Don’t overthink it. If they genuinely like you back, they will respond positively.
Be a man who understands women to grasp more happiness.