True Love Unveiled: The Path to Happiness
How to Find True Love?
Have you found true love? Even those who are already in a relationship may not nod without hesitation.
How many people get into a relationship just to avoid loneliness? How many succumb to parental pressure and get married? How many walk into marriage just to avoid being seen as abnormal? And how many, despite reaching middle age, refuse to compromise until they find true love?
So, how do you find your true love?
We interviewed happily committed individuals to learn their secrets in finding true love. Surprisingly, over half of them answered, “I don’t know.” Are they unwilling to share? No, they really don’t know because they never actively searched for it!
This reveals the secret of this article: How to find true love?
The answer is: You don’t have to search at all!
- If you blossom, butterflies will come to you. Your excellence will attract true love to find you.
Stop futilely searching for true love. Instead of stressing over it, invest more time and energy in enriching yourself. Make yourself increasingly outstanding.
Someone might ask: Does this mean only outstanding people deserve true love? Can’t ordinary people find true love? Are those who feel inferior not worthy of love?
Of course not.
Here, excellence does not have a specific standard in the conventional sense. In my opinion, anyone can excel in some aspect.
For example, when you are engrossed in something you are genuinely interested in, that focus and dedication represent a form of excellence in that particular pursuit.
When you are captivated by something meaningful, you might not even realize how radiant you appear.
At that moment, true love will unexpectedly come to you.
- People must find their own interests and hobbies to live a fulfilling life.
After going abroad, I noticed that almost everyone around me has distinct characteristics. Just mentioning someone, I can immediately list their favorite interests and characteristics, and recall some almost crazy things they did for their hobbies.
Some love swimming, not just a quick swim every day, but also disappearing for half a day to swim in the lake for hours.
Some love surfing and would search the entire city for a beloved surfboard.
Some love photography and would simplify all living expenses to buy professional photography equipment because, to them, the joy of owning a desired lens outweighs all other indulgences.
When a person possesses such drive and zest for life, do they have time and energy to fret about “finding true love”? Their individual life is already incredibly interesting; their world is already vivid and colorful.
Such an engaging and independent person exudes a magnetic field wherever they go, attracting those with similar interests and hobbies.
Therefore, true love does not require deliberate searching. True love will find you. The prerequisite is that you are outstanding enough and possess an independent and intriguing soul.
A life without interests and hobbies can be somewhat dull. A rich inner world allows you to find joy without depending on the external world or anyone else at any time.
If your life, aside from work, only consists of surfing the internet, binge-watching shows, playing with your phone, shopping, and indulging in food and drink, you really need to consider enriching your spiritual life.
- Liking someone or not should not rely on sight or reason, but on sensing with your heart.
If people can be categorized, I agree. The boundaries between people are not related to wealth and status, age, or gender. It’s a feeling.
Love and making friends are equally magical. The depth of your feelings and attachment to someone does not directly correlate with the length of time you’ve known them.
With shared interests, you can open up to someone you’ve just met as if they were an old friend. Conversely, the longer you know someone who isn’t on the same wavelength, the more distant you become.
It has nothing to do with worldly gains; it’s the distance of the heart. This distance naturally exists, and you can’t control it or cross it with reason.
For those we instantly like at first sight, the more we get to know them, the more we feel they are worth knowing. This worthiness has nothing to do with material possessions; it’s about spiritual resonance and relaxation, it’s about destiny and following your heart.
As we age and gain wisdom, we might not even need to meet in person; based solely on words or voice, we can sense if our magnetic fields align with someone else’s.
This sensing is done with the heart, so it remains accurate across time and space. The soul, spirit, and heart are not bound by space, or even time! This is not idealism; it’s true materialism, something science has been trying to prove, and will ultimately confirm.
I believe love at first sight and sudden heart flutters in love stem from this internal sensing. However, love is easily swayed by impulsive hormones within our bodies. After these hormones subside, certain things might change. Compared to love, following your heart in making friends is much more accurate.
Therefore, it is reasonable to assume that love drawn from shared interests and hobbies is relatively more likely to last.
The heart cannot bear injustice. The most important responsibility in our lives is our spiritual world. Take up this responsibility first, become someone with a rich spiritual life. Then, true love will follow the scent of your soul and find you!