The purpose of this article is not to argue, and certainly not to educate.
Betrayal is betrayal, no need for any excuses or reasons.
If you dare to do it, then have the courage to admit and take responsibility. But in reality, there are always so many betrayers who insist on finding some kind of justification, even pushing the blame onto the other party.
After the betrayal, there are countless deceptions, endless sophistry, and shameless denials, displaying the most detestable and ugly side of human nature to the fullest, leaving an unforgettable impression.
Many people say, “When I was young, I didn’t understand love.” Actually, it’s when you’re not young anymore that you understand love even less.
Some people say, “I met the right person at the wrong time.” Harming others and destroying families make it impossible for any premise of being “right” to exist.
The most despicable thing is not the betrayal itself, but the fact that after the betrayal, they still cling to the other person, wanting to have it both ways, deceiving and manipulating on both ends, using the happiness of others to satisfy their own selfish desires.
Betrayal is betrayal, don’t pretend it’s about emotions.
If you truly love someone, you would make them happy, and happiness requires commitment.
How could things like affairs bring happiness? Otherwise, why are they called “cheating”?
Real love allows a person to maintain their dignity and not be entangled. If you truly believe that an extramarital affair is true love, at least don’t label the person you love as “the third party.”
You can choose to end your current relationship and start a new one, that’s the responsible thing to do for everyone. Affairs, on the other hand, are irresponsible and hurtful to everyone involved.
Real love is not about possession; anything with the aim of possession does not deserve to be called love. Love is about blessing, self-restraint, and is only worthy of those at a higher level.
Betrayal is betrayal, don’t be proud of it.
Not having the ability may indeed prevent an affair, but having the ability does not necessarily require one.
There are countless ways to prove your abilities, and having an affair is not one of them. On the contrary, those who have the real ability are the ones who have the chance and the conditions for an affair but choose not to have one.
In fact, having an affair is a true lack of ability, because it proves that you are incapable of managing a marriage or a family, and incapable of resisting temptation or controlling yourself.
Some people say, “You’re just talking without understanding the pain of being betrayed. Do you understand how many lives your indulgence has affected?” You actually don’t understand either. If you truly understood, you would not betray.
Betrayal is betrayal, don’t say that everyone in society is like this.
The most ridiculous thing to say is: “Everyone is the same!”
Are you really sure that everyone is the same? You’re wrong, everyone really is not the same.
By saying this, you are exposing your circle—birds of a feather flock together. Not everyone is like this. If what you say is true, it only shows that the people around you are like this. Then the problem arises, why are you associating with such people and not the other kind?
Being a good person requires role models that are progressive and positive. If you don’t want to learn well, and insist on learning bad things, believing that it’s not a big deal, then there’s really nothing more to talk about—if you don’t want to learn well, is there a need to discuss what is good or bad?
Whether betrayal is right or wrong, if we still need to debate such a question, it’s really a waste of time and a mood spoiler.