I once read a poem that goes like this:
“People’s hearts change easily, but it is said that old feelings are easy to change.”
This poem tells us that people’s emotions will change with time.
When some people are pursuing someone, they want to be with that person every day. But as time passes, this feeling will become more and more dull.
Before getting married, couples often dream of having a good life together and getting along well after marriage.
However, many things happen after marriage that make feelings towards each other fade.
When two people are not married, they long to be together all the time, but after getting married, being together becomes more and more mundane.
Everything needs a shelf life, so to keep things fresh, both parties need to make an effort.
Even if they are together every day, some couples will not get tired of each other in the midst of a car accident.
Avoid Harming Each Other
In a relationship, never do anything to harm your partner. Even if you are together every day, if you hurt your partner, being together will feel like torture.
For example, some couples argue over trivial matters when together.
These arguments escalate into physical fights, which can stall the relationship.
No matter how angry you are, never resort to violence. Remember the consequences before acting.
Maintaining a relationship requires effort, not destruction. If you both work on the relationship, whether together or apart, it will flourish.
But if you harm your partner, even being together all the time will lead to resentment.
How can a couple keep things fresh forever? Be mindful of your actions and avoid causing harm.
Grow Together and Stay Attractive to Each Other
To be together every day without getting tired, you must keep evolving and stay attractive to each other.
People are constantly growing. Stagnation leads to boredom in a relationship.
Both parties need to evolve to keep things fresh. People crave novelty, so when you feel stuck and uninteresting, it’s time for a change.
A successful marriage is about mutual growth, mutual attraction, and falling in love with the same person.
People change, but by showcasing your strengths when change happens, the relationship can thrive.
The key to staying fresh when together is continuous self-improvement. Keep evolving, and you will always be intriguing to your partner.
In this world, lack of innovation leads to failure. The same applies to relationships.
Choosing the Right Partner is Vital
Famous writer Qian Zhongshu and his wife have become a timeless love story.
Qian Zhongshu described his wife as the “most tragic talented woman.”
He admired his wife’s talent and was willing to do anything for her.
Imagine a talented woman married to a man who doesn’t appreciate her. The future is predictable. Find someone who appreciates and supports you.
Qian Zhongshu’s wife once said, “Before I met you, I never thought of marriage. After marrying you, I have never regretted.”
A beautiful love story like Qian Zhongshu’s is based on mutual admiration.
Choosing the right partner is crucial. When you find the right person, being together all the time will never be monotonous.
Being attracted to each other makes every moment spent together joyful.
Before getting married, find someone you love, who loves you, and appreciates you. The journey of admiration will strengthen the marriage.
Marriage is like a walled city; both partners change after marriage. But with the right person, you both will grow and thrive.
In the vast sea of people, we are all waiting for the right person, someone who appreciates us.
When you find a selfless and compatible partner, happiness is being together every day without feeling tired or bored.