He Xiaodao said:
“When my hair grows to my waist, you can marry me. When you tie up your hair, I’ll be willing to wait for you for ten miles. But I’m afraid that when my hair grows to my waist, you’ll have fallen for someone else. And when you tie up your hair, you’ll be smiling at someone else.”
When you love someone, even the most introverted person will become a poet. Even if they don’t like talking, they’ll become talkative and have a lot to say to the other person.
In life, women are more reserved when it comes to emotions. But you can still tell if a woman loves someone from her behavior.
Maybe sometimes men think women don’t like talking, but they don’t know that when a woman responds like this, it means she doesn’t have him in her heart.
Gu Mang said:
“The two luckiest things in my life are: one, that time has finally exhausted my love for you; two, that I met you a long, long time ago.”
Love can also disappear with time, just like a man’s love for a woman. When this feeling doesn’t get a response, the man will suffer greatly, and the feeling will eventually disappear.
Only some men can sense a woman’s thoughts early on, while others are slow to realize.
Actually, a woman who responds like this doesn’t have you in her heart.
You Do Whatever, It Has Nothing to Do with Me
Bi Shumin said:
“From the moment I loved you, your business became my business.”
When someone loves another person, they’ll feel that the other person’s business is their own. When the other person does something, they’ll think about it too.
But in life, when a man and woman chat, if the man wants to do something and asks for the woman’s opinion, the woman’s response is:
“You do whatever, it has nothing to do with me.”
This sentence reveals that the woman is very cold and distant, and that she doesn’t have the man in her heart. If she did, she wouldn’t say this.
Actually, if a woman isn’t deeply in love with a man but still has feelings for him, she wouldn’t say something so cold. Instead, she’d give her opinion.
Sometimes when someone is being polite to another person, they still show some respect. But when a woman says this, she doesn’t even leave room for politeness, which means she has no love for the man.
In life, if a man likes a woman, he’ll always find ways to communicate with her on his phone. This method can also test whether the woman has feelings for him.
Those women who truly love a man will be very concerned when the man wants to do something. They won’t be indifferent.
“You do whatever, it has nothing to do with me” shows that the woman is not concerned about the man and doesn’t care about what he does.
You’re So Long-Winded, Just Get to the Point
I have a friend who was with her boyfriend and always seemed to be busy.
Sometimes her boyfriend would ask her to go out, but she’d only chat with him for a bit before leaving, saying she was busy and had to go back.
Later, when they chatted on the phone, my friend would say:
“You’re so long-winded, just get to the point.”
In my impression, my friend was always a very enthusiastic girl who would chat with me for a long time on the phone.
Sometimes when we chatted, my friend would even initiate sending me many messages, and when I was about to sleep, she’d still be chatting with me, sometimes even calling me.
But with her boyfriend, my friend was very cold and distant, which shows that she wasn’t naturally cold, but rather didn’t like chatting with someone she didn’t like.
If a man sends a message to a woman and she thinks he’s too long-winded and tells him to get to the point, it means she doesn’t love him.
If a woman loves a man, she’ll feel like time flies when they’re together, and chatting with him is enjoyable, not a chore.
When a woman doesn’t like chatting with a man, it means their relationship has gone cold. Sometimes the woman might not even realize it, but her behavior reveals it.
When someone loves someone, they always want to be with that person, reading every word they say, even looking back at chat records.
But when they no longer love that person, every word they say is nonsense, and every minute with them is torture.
I’m Busy Today, Let’s Talk Another Day
Some men will ask a woman out, and she’ll respond:
“I’m busy today, let’s talk another day.”
Actually, as Balzac said:
“A woman’s time is determined by her interest in a man.”
So, if a man feels that a woman is always busy, prioritizing her career, and never looks at him, it means she doesn’t love him.
Time is like water in a sponge, and we always prioritize the most important people in our lives. If a woman loves a man, she’ll make time for him, even if she’s busy.
If a woman says she’s busy, it might not be true, and she might just not want to chat with the man.
Actually, a woman who doesn’t love a man will respond in these ways. Maybe the man did something wrong, which made the woman lose interest, or maybe the woman never loved him in the first place.
Actually, men should also be more perceptive in relationships, observing the woman’s behavior to understand her feelings.
As Xu Zhimo said:
“Men also crave love, and when they love someone, they become very small.”
So, if a man truly loves a woman, a smart woman will cherish him.