Weiser once said, “Love that heats up quickly also cools down quickly.”
A man’s love for a woman is usually easy to detect, as his emotions are often expressed through actions.
When a man becomes weary of you, he will show signs of impatience towards you.
Yuan Yuan, a reader of ours, recently shared a story about her relationship. In her letter, she wrote, “I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. He was the one who pursued me actively. At the beginning of our relationship, he would spend all his time with me.”
During the honeymoon phase, we were inseparable.
Three years into the relationship, we have grown apart. He used to be very accommodating, but his attitude towards me has become hard to accept. Due to life’s trivialities, we often argue.
Not long ago, I accidentally saw his phone, and he got very angry with me. Because of this incident, we are now on the verge of breaking up. I don’t know what to do. When he was pursuing me, he was the one who said he wanted to protect me for a lifetime, but now he is extremely impatient with me.
Love is not a game. Regardless of winning or losing, it’s easy for every woman to sense whether a man truly loves her. When a man starts to grow weary of you, there are several signs to look out for.
Impatient Tone
Shakespeare once said, “Love that is not too intense will last.”
One’s tone can reveal their true feelings towards you. If a person no longer loves you, their actions will show it. Many women tend to persist even when there are signs of trouble in a relationship. However, in relationships, it’s crucial to know when to stop.
When a man speaks to you with impatience, it indicates that he no longer cares about your every move. Men are practical too. In life, they weigh the pros and cons. At the beginning of pursuing you, he may give up everything for you. But when he no longer loves you, the feelings between you will vanish instantly.
Women are sensitive in relationships. Any hint of impatience from a man can make them want to escape. A man who loves you understands your emotional needs. A man who loves you will not allow you to suffer injustices. Only someone who doesn’t love you will ignore everything about you.
Often Aggressive Towards You
Verbal violence is often a stumbling block in relationships. Although everyone has a temper, a man who loves you will reserve his gentleness for you. They know how to take care of your emotions and consider you. Love has no reason; only those who love you will treat you gently.
A man who loves you will not let you suffer any grievances. A man who doesn’t love you will just try to deceive you in every possible way.
Love is not just about words. If a man can’t even show you basic tenderness, your passion for him will eventually be exhausted. When a man treats your relationship with indifference, your love will cease to exist. At the beginning of a relationship, a man being overly accommodating does not equate to love. Over time, if a man can still love you as before, that is true love.
Only when a man doesn’t love you will he treat your relationship lightly. His words are perfunctory, showing no hint of love towards you.
Disregards Your Opinions
What is love? Different people have different interpretations. But true love is about respect. All happiness must be based on respect. If a man can’t even give you basic respect, then he doesn’t love you much.
Even if he makes many vows, they are just empty words. Relationships require communication and interaction. If a man makes all decisions by himself and doesn’t care about your feelings, conflicts will arise in your relationship.
I remember when I was dating my husband, he would always ask for my opinion no matter what. Even after getting married, he still maintains this habit.
Many friends envy our relationship, but what I want to say is, respect between two people is fundamental no matter who you are with. Only by understanding this, the relationship between two people will become more stable.
Tagore once said, “Understanding is the synonym of love.”
When two people are together, mutual understanding is essential for the relationship to thrive. True love means considering things from the other person’s perspective, not doing things that harm others for selfish reasons.
Molière once said, “Love is a great teacher, teaching us to be a better person.”
The way each person expresses love is clear. If you don’t feel it, then it’s not there. Often, there’s no need to deceive oneself or waste time on someone who doesn’t appreciate you. Someone who loves you will always love you. Even if you give a lot to someone who doesn’t love you, it will be in vain. True love is selfless. When a man understands your feelings, cares about your emotions, that’s when he truly loves you.