If you can, be a woman who loves money to death. Maybe when everyone first sees this title, there’s a bit of confusion. Isn’t it saying that women are materialistic? In real life, materialistic women may not be well-liked by everyone.
But what I want to say is that materialistic women are not wrong. With material wealth, women can feel secure. Materialistic women don’t necessarily have to rely on others. They can also work hard to create a better life for themselves.
Not long ago, I had dinner with a friend I hadn’t seen in a long time. During dinner, we talked about the trivialities of daily life. She is 28 years old, unmarried, had a relationship in college, but it ended due to a long-distance separation. After graduation, she focused on her career and her love life has been empty since.
She chose entrepreneurship since college and has achieved some success after several years. In our eyes, she is a strong woman who can handle both work and home, and there is no shortage of men pursuing her.
Many relatives and friends advised her to find a partner and get married soon, but she said, “I want to save money for my dowry. I don’t want to rely on my future husband financially, and I don’t want my presence to be a burden to him.
So, the money I’m working hard to earn now is not for anyone but myself. You can call me materialistic or selfish, but I don’t see anything wrong with being materialistic.”
After hearing her words, I also felt a bit moved. Indeed, in today’s society, it’s difficult to survive without money. Being a woman who loves money to death is not wrong.
In a way, money can bring more happiness to women and make their lives more exciting and fulfilling.
Material Provides the Foundation for a Woman’s Life
Recently, I came across stories of pseudo-socialites online. We can’t judge others’ lives, but this reflects the current state of many people’s lives.
Everyone is pursuing a higher standard of living, wanting to connect with influential people. However, in reality, in many circles, only if you have the capability can you truly fit in with them.
If you fake it and make yourself look high-class, that kind of life won’t stand the test. Material things are crucial for women. They can improve your quality of life and give you more security.
Material things provide the foundation for your life and bring more excitement to your journey.
Hans Christian Andersen once said, “A person must go through hard work to achieve something.” This tells us the significance of striving.
When a woman asks a man for money after marriage, she loses her value and respect in his eyes. In life, there are too many days where you need money to maintain your status. A life without money is tough, especially for women. Money represents your capability and class.
Only when you become wealthier and more attractive will more people notice you.
If you always hope for redemption from others, that kind of life won’t lead to happiness. Hoping in yourself leads to action, which is the key difference.
Material Can Bring You More Opportunities
“The ideal of life is to lead an ideal life.”
In today’s era, material wealth is indeed essential for us. With material wealth, everything around you will improve. Investments require certain costs.
When you package yourself, you also need material wealth to pave the way for you. There’s no such thing as a free lunch. To gain, you must learn to give. To give, you must have confidence so that you can reap more.
Material wealth represents opportunities. With good material conditions, you’ll have more chances to do what you want. Material wealth represents connections. In this world, nothing is more critical than your future. We should leverage material wealth instead of letting it control us.
Never give up investing in yourself as a woman. As the saying goes, “If you blossom, the gentle breeze will come. If you shine, the sky will arrange.”
A frugal woman isn’t necessarily attractive, but a hardworking woman won’t lack money.
Therefore, in real life, if given the opportunity, we should also strive to be women who love money to death. Money can provide you with a better life, help you take better care of your parents, and maintain relationships with relatives and friends. True relationships built on money can last.
With money, you’ll have more opportunities. With material wealth, your life will become increasingly better. Many people think talking about money is tacky, but in reality, money is fundamental for our survival and success in society. With material wealth, you must continuously improve yourself to become outstanding.
Talking about money isn’t vulgar. Only when we become wealthier will our lives improve.
Karl Marx once said, “Forget the past, struggle for the future.”
Being a woman focused on love isn’t wrong, but money can solve many problems to some extent. Money is a woman’s shield and is more reliable than men. So, earn more money, improve yourself, and you’ll achieve the happiness you desire.