1. Longing for Love, Yet Feeling Content Alone
This is the daily routine of every single person. They suddenly ask themselves: Why don’t I have a partner? Then they ask: Why do I need a partner? They spend each day in this kind of self-questioning and self-answering.
Women are very emotional, especially those who have been single for a long time. When they see others in pairs, they often envy their companionship, wishing for love. However, they also feel that being alone allows them to do whatever they want without compromise or worry, feeling free and content.
2. Feeling That Anyone Is Acceptable, Yet Always Finding Something Unsuitable
They might think someone looks okay and consider giving it a try, but then they realize it might not be a good fit. Especially when it comes to marriage, they might feel that getting married is just a matter of finding a man around the same age, ambitious, and not too unattractive. Many people around them have settled in this way, so why not them?
But then they think it’s not right. Whether life is long or short, they feel it’s better to find someone they truly like. However, when they are ready to love, the right person is no longer around, and they keep missing out.
3. Increasing Psychological Independence and Believing They Don’t Need Men at All
As women remain single for a long time, they become increasingly independent psychologically, not needing to rely on men for anything. They can handle everything, from fixing plumbing and electrical issues to repairing toilets. They feel completely equal to men and are quite independent and self-assured. They only feel the need for a man’s strong arms and a firm embrace when they are vulnerable.
4. Broadening Interests and Enjoying Traveling
Women who have been single for a long time have diverse interests and enjoy traveling. Besides work, they have nothing else to worry about. They like to travel to relax and uplift their spirits when they feel good or bad. Their broad interests not only help them pass the time but also divert their attention and expand their knowledge.
So, single women become increasingly outstanding. Of course, there are also those who stay at home all day, eat junk food, and binge-watch TV shows.
5. Developing “Homecoming Phobia” and Feeling Uneasy When Family Calls
Their heart races when they see a call from family, as the topic of “when are you bringing your boyfriend to visit” always comes up. No matter what is said, being single is seen as the biggest mistake. Then, it turns into a lecture. At this point, they wish their phone would run out of battery.
Returning home during holidays is even more awkward, with every relative turning into a life coach, and then it’s time for arranged blind dates. Sometimes, they particularly dislike going home for holidays, finding it terrifying every time, and feeling safer and more comfortable in the outside world.
Being single can indeed be nice, but they still need to keep trying, without suppressing themselves or settling. As long as they maintain their capacity for love, the right person will definitely appear and put an end to their single life. Before they appear, it’s worth continuing to improve themselves while waiting.